NEW
FRIENDS AND OLD FRIENDS
”New Friends And Old Friends” is a
poem written by a Welsh composer and musician Joseph Parry. He was born on 21st
May 1841 in Merthyr Tydfil, Wales, United Kingdom, and died in Penarth, Wales,
United Kingdom, on 17th February 1903.
Before I quote the text of the aforesaid
poem, let us have a look at the meaning of the word “Friend”.
According to some dictionaries a friend is a person with whom one
has a bond of mutual affection, trust, and support.
Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary
of Current English defines the word friend as a person you know well and like,
and who is not usually a member of your family.
Some synonyms of the word “Friend”
are: companion, mate, crony, comrade, playmate, soul mate, confidante, ally,
associate, chum, buddy, and alter ego.
The noun friendship means ---- intimacy,
close relationship, affinity, comradeship, fellowship, alliance, and close relationship.
Psychologically, a friend is more
than a physician during one’s sickness or any other adversity upsetting one’s peace of mind.
The English clergy Robert Hall (1764-1831)
said: A friend should be one in whose understanding and virtue we can equally
confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and its
sincerity.
He further said: He who has made the
acquisition of a judicious and sympathizing friend, may be said to have doubled
his mental resources.
According to the American
neurologist and author Silas Weir Mitchell (1829-1914) : He alone has lost the
art to live who cannot win new friends.
One of the lines in Joseph Parry’s
poem New Friends And Old Friends says:
Friendships
that have stood the test ---
Time
and change ---are surely best.
Another line which compares well with
William Shakespeare’s following lines :
“ Love
is not Time’s fool”, and “ “Love alters
not when it alteration finds”. is:
“Friendship never knows decay”.
Finally, what
follows is the full text of Joseph Parry’s poem :NEW FRIENDS AND OLD FRIENDS.
“Make
new friends, but keep the old;
Those are silver, these are gold.
New-made friendships, like new wine,
Age will mellow and refine.
Friendships that have stood the test—
Time and change—are surely best;
Brow may wrinkle, hair grow gray,
Friendship never knows decay.
For 'mid old friends, tried and true,
Once more we our youth renew.
But old friends, alas! may die,
New friends must their place supply.
Cherish friendship in your breast—
New is good, but old is best;
Make new friends, but keep the old;
Those are silver, these are gold.”
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G.R.Kanwal
21st April 2026