CAN A
MOMENT BE LARGER THAN A LIFE-SPAN ?
I feel shocked when somebody
disconnects himself from his very old organisation due to a momentary hurtful
experience. He forgets his whole
life-span of pleasant years spent in that organisation and defects to dissimilar
one as if a moment of hurt is larger
than the decades of hurtless days and nights.
He instantly becomes
estranged, decides to take revenge even by taking the help of those whom he
never liked before.
This is a puzzling phenomenon. As an Urdu poet says: Ik zara see baat par, barson ke yaranay gaye.
(A tiny unpleasant event ended the friendship of so many years.)
What is important for a loyal person
is his unbreakable relationship with a faith, philosophy, ideology , conviction,
tenet, canon, creed, belief, system, love
affair, friendly bond which
he chose not only sentimentally but also intellectually and spiritually.
No course of life whether it is social, political, religious or of any other denomination
is smooth. . Even after a number of years, a moment may come when it may prick him deeply. But that is the moment of his trial. Its pain should not overpower the pleasures of
the preceding life span. Forgetting that moment, sooner than later, is a
blessing rather than a curse.
Altering one’s loyalty is undesirable.
Let me conclude this short write up with one of the most popular
sonnets by the English poet William Shakespeare( 1564-1616):
“Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments.
Love is not love
Which alters wen it
alteration finds,
Or bends with the remove to remove.
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is ever shaken;
It is the star to every wand’ring bark,
Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken.
Love’s not Time’s
fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle’s compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears It out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me prov’d,
I never writ, nor no man ever lov’d.”
1st
October 2021 G.
R. KANWAL