Saturday, 28 March 2026

SELFISH PERSONS

 

SELFISH PERSONS

            Selfish persons forget the proverb that man is a social animal. They also forget  the maxim : One for all and all for one. They are mean, ungenerous, illiberal, greedy, egotistical and narrow-minded.           

            They mind their own business.  They are known for ---  self-love, self-protection, self-care , self-esteem, self-interest,  etc.

            The term self-aggrandizement means: the act of increasing one’s own power, status, wealth, or reputation, often in an aggressive, boastful or ruthless manner.  

              Some synonyms of self-aggrandizement are: egotism, narcissism, conceit, vain-glory, self-elevation, arrogance, and boastfulness.                    

            Selfish persons ignore the social proverb : Love thy neighbour as thyself.

            If there is any adversity world-wide,  selfish persons will think of relief only for themselves, their family, their village, their town , their city, and on a larger level their country.

            If there is a universal period of any natural calamity, he will pray for God’s mercy only for his family, his kith and kin and at the most his country.

            Look at these famous quotes about selfish persons (1). Self-centered people have only one topic to talk about --- themselves. (2) Self-absorbed people only think about what makes them feel good at the moment. They don’t have any respect or regard for anyone else. Then they wonder why their relationships fail. (3). Selfish people think of themselves. They don’t care about the pain they cause others and they certainly don’t care about the damage they do.

            The American clergy Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887) said: Our gifts and attainments are not only to be light and warmth in our own dwellings, but are to shine through the window, into the dark night, to guide and cheer bewildered travellers on the road.

            To conclude, here are two suggestions: (i) Behave like a world citizen. (ii).  Make caring and sharing  your foremost  principle of your life.

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G.R.Kanwal

28 March 2026

           

 

 

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