THUS SPAKE MAHATMA GANDHI
(2.10.1869-30.1.1948)
ON SEX
EDUCATION: The
sex-education, that I stand for, must have for its object the conquest and
sublimation of the sex passion. Such
education should automatically serve to bring home to children the essential
distinction between man and brute, to make them realize that it is man’s
privilege and pride to be gifted with the faculties of head and heart both,
that he is a thinking no less than a feeling animal, and to renounce the
sovereignty of reason over the blind instincts is, therefore, to renounce a
man’s estate. (Harijan, 21.11.1936).
As about the
children’s curiosity about the facts of life, we should tell them if we know,
and admit our ignorance if we do not. If
it is something that must not be told, we should check them and ask them not to
put such questions even to any one else.
We must never put them off. (The Diary of Mahadev Desai).
Children know more
things than we imagine. If they do not
know and if we refuse to tell them, they try to acquire the knowledge in a
questionable manner. But if it has to be
withheld from them, we must take such risk.
If they ask us about the sexual act, we must not tell them. (The Diary of Mahadev Desai).
If children watch
the berhaviour of birds, and want to know I should tell them and take the
opportunity to teach them a lesson in Brhmacharya (chastity). I would emphasise the distinction between men
and beasts or birds. If men and women
behave like beasts, they are only beasts in human shape. This is not vituperation but a bare statement
of facts. We are endowed with human shape and reason in order that we may
subdue the beast within. (The Diary of
Mahadev Desai).
Boys and girls
cannot remain innocent for all time, no matter how hard we try. Therefore, it is advisable to tell them the
facts of life at a certain age. If this
knowledge leads any of them to misbehave themselves, we must not mind. As a matter of fact, such knowledge ought to
strengthen ones will to chastity. That
is my own experience, at any rate. (The
Diary of Mahadev Desai).
Some acquire this
knowledge to feed the animal passion; others come to know in the natural course
of things; still others equip themselves with information in order to control
passion and help others to do so. This knowledge
may be imparted only by those who are fit to do it. (The Diary of Mahadev Desai).
SEX URGE. Today,
our entire environment – our reading, our thinking, our social behaviour - is generally calculated to subserve and
cater for the sex urge. To break through
its coils is no easy task. But it is a
task worthy of our highest endeavour.
(Harijan, 21.11.1936).
Sex urge is a fine
and noble thing. There is nothing to be
ashamed of it. But it is meant only for
the act of creation. Any other use of it
is a sin against God and humanity.
(Harijan, 28.3.1936).
God has blessed
man with seed that has the highest potency and woman with a field richer than
the richest earth to be found anywhere on this globe. Surely, it is criminal folly for man to allow
his most precious possession to run to waste.
He must guard it with a care greater than he will bestow upon the
richest pearls in his possession. And so
is a woman guilty of criminal folly who will receive the seed in her
life-producing field with the deliberate intention of letting it run to
waste. Both he and she will be judged
guilty of misuse of the talents given to them, and they will be dispossessed of
what they have been given. (Harijan, 28.3.1936). Courtesy: The Encyclopedia of
Gandhian Thoughts published by AICC (I), New Delhi.
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