Sunday, 23 August 2026

QUALITIES OF UN-OFFENSIVE SPEECH

 

                QUALITIES OF UN-OFFENSIVE SPEECH

            Speech is communication, expression, delivery, address, oration, discourse, lecture. sermon, parlance, and utterance. It conveys thoughts, feelings, ideas, emotions, feelings, information, news,etc.    

            What matters more than the purpose of a speech is the style of the speaker. He should be gentle, sweet, appreciative, positive, pleasing, humorous, gratifying, and admirable.

            It will be dangerous if he is bitter, critical, harsh, fault-finder, and offensive.

            His speech should be persuasive, not provocative; easy to understand;  appropriately brief; and, as far as possible,  according to the expectations of his listeners.

            According to a famous quote : Non-offensive speech respects the dignity, feelings, and background of others. It relies on respectful, precise, and inclusive language that avoids demeaning groups, attacking personal identities, or using unnecessary hostility.”

            A good speech is appreciated, not condemned. It does not start an unpleasant discussion.

            If you are talking about the dead, be gentle and courteous. According to a proverb : nothing but good should be talked about the dead.

            Don’t be communal or sectarian in your speech. An English professor of English literature James Kirkup (1918-2009) says:

             Remember, no men are strange, no countries foreign,

             Beneath all uniforms, a single body breathes

            Like ours; the land our brothers walk upon

            Is earth like this, in which we all shall lie.

The title of the poem is: No Men Are Foreign and the last stanza carries the following words:

            It is the human earth that we defile,

            Our hells of fire and dust outrage the innocence

            Of air that is everywhere our own.

            Remember, no men are foreign, and no countries strange.

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PUNCHLINE:  Speech is silvern, silence is golden; speech is human, silence is divine.----German Proverb.

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G.R.Kanwal

23 August 2026

 

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