Sunday, 16 August 2026

THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

 

          THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

            The full proverb is “ Think before ou speak, and look before you leap.”

            Thoughtless speech can be dangerous. When you speak spontaneously, you get no time to examine the consequences of what you say.

            Never forget that the essential purpose of an ideal speech is to heal, not to hurt.

            Also remember, that words cut deeper than the sword. The cuts of a sword heal up sooner than those of the tongue.

            Somebody rightly said that “The true purpose of speech is to share ideas, spark action, and connect mind.” It can also be said that a good speech should turn enemies into friends, not friends into enemies.  

            Gandhiji (1869-1948) said: Man spoils matters much more by speech than by silence. He suggests: Look at Nature. She is continuously in action, never rests for a single moment, yet is mute.

             Here are some famous quotes:-

1.     Speech is a faculty given to man to conceal his thoughts.---Talleyrand, French clergyman and statesman (1754-1838).

2.     A superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.---Confucius, Chinese philosopher (Died 479 BC).

3.     According  to Solomon, life and death are in the power of the tongue; and as Euripides truly affirmeth, every unbridled tongue in the end shall find itself unfortunate; in all that ever I observed I ever found that men’s fortunes are oftener made by their tongues  than by their virtues, and more men’s fortunes overthrown thereby, also, than by their vices.---Sir Walter Raleigh, English statesman and writer (1552-1618).

4.     There are three things that ought to be considered before Some things are spoken, --the manner, the place, and the time.----Robert Southey, English poet (1774-1843).

5.     Never rise to speak till you have something to say; and when you have said it, cease.----John Witherspoon, OTTISH DIVINE (1723-1794)/

6.     Discretion of speech is more than eloquence; and to speak agreeably to him with whom we deal is more than to speak in good words, or in good order.---Francis Bacon, English philosopher and essayist (1561-1626).

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G.R.Kanwal

16 August 2026  

 

 

 

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